Ugh- I'm such an idiot. Frameline (the LGBT film festival in San Francisco) screened J'ai Tue Ma Mere here last week and I was completely unaware. :(
ugh, that sucks. You should try and see it anyway that you can the character of the mother is fantastic, as well, it has what I think is a wonderful sex scene with that Vive la Fete song. It was really well done especially for him being so young when he had made it.