Not true. although I feel like this sometimes also, if it is what you want then do it and it will happen. as bullshitty as it sounds you really just need to work hard at it, especially if you care about it. However i am never one to stop a quitter, I think quitting is one of the most subversive acts.
“As I’ve said repeatedly until I’m mauve in the face, the gay movement used to be about effacing radical social change, and about embracing a whole spectrum of non-conformist behavior, not about fighting for the right to be as conventional and conservative as everyone else.”—BRUCE LABRUCE (via pleasureunit) (via americanartfag)
“The gay activist establishment has been stupid and narrow in the way it has conducted its civil rights campaign. An authentically Sixties libertarian vision would argue for the protection of all non-conformist behavior, to which homosexual love is just a subset.”—CAMILLE PAGLIA (via pleasureunit)